BEING YOURSELF

Sometimes it's too hard to understand the way you’re supposed to act for the good things you’re being repeatedly told by someone caring. I used these good words just to tell the person is kind of important. Still I'm questioning this because there’s a limit to which you can listen people (even the closest ones) repeating the same or at the very least similar things again and again. You know when you’re being told of the same things again and again without being allowed the consideration to the fact that you’re too concerned for it, it becomes too irritating and after a certain time frustrating and the best thing (just to keep the things cool, at least for yourself) it becomes necessary to ignore the stuffs as much as possible. But you know the truth is, although you get to maintain some level of cool through ignorance, the biggest drawback of this ignorance is, a part of you that used to consider the things as something worth considering, now starts to ignore even that. You slowly and gradually become a kind of person who barely gives much ear (let alone ears and consideration) to what others have to make you understand for your own good. This is definitely something harmful and bad for you (for us, the gradually turning ignorant). And there’s barely a way you can sort things out; what you can do is agree every time you’re being scolded and then respond as if you are OK with whatever is being told. Because the one telling you your things which you’re already considering, which the person i.e. the possessive advisor ain’t ready to agree with (because he terribly lacks the patience to wait for the result or the very least the change to take place), wants to see the change without changing the futile ways which are failing him to bring about the change. That is to say (in simple) the person advising you to the irritating and annoying and disturbing level wants to see the change in you through those very means and ways only which have never been able to do anything good and are rather at times more disturbing than being good. Every time we fail in anything, every single time, it's not 100% failure because that’d mean you couldn’t get anything out of it; but every time we fail (as Edison said) it does tell you at the very least one and very important thing, “the way you’re using or the path you’re taking to meet your end result or get the desired result, is not right and there’s a need of change in the way the things are being pursued.” Those, who realize this, to them success ain’t much farther; but those who fail or take too much time they take an equal amount of time in getting success in whatever they are doing. And since the afore person ain’t into much inclination to change his/her way, the best thing you can do is change your way (because ultimately it's about you and your well being, so why ruin it because of someone who ain’t ready to either understand or trust you or both and yet want a result from you) and keep your calm during those annoying situation or at the very least calm yourself down even if you get heated up owing to the anger building because of the past annoyances and do consider the fact that you need to prove it, not just to him/her but to yourself too that you’re what you say you’re and that you can make you things good on your own. Just don't get too carried away in ignoring and being frustrated that you actually tend to ignore what all this is about and what you got to give consideration to so that you cannot just prove that person but yourself as well that you’re what you are and you’re capable to handle yourself…